We are Seth and Melanie Studley, and we are revolutionizing the way couples approach marriage, family, and relationship help. Seth is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and Melanie is a Marriage Expert & Motivational Speaker. Together, we created the Anatomy Of Us Podcast where we offer a no-nonsense approach to relationship advice and tools. Our podcast was inspired by our near-divorce experience in 2009 and has been listened to all over the globe, with over 5,000,000 downloads and counting!

Now, as High-Performance Marriage Coaches and Motivational Marriage Speakers, we are on a mission to change the world one marriage at a time. Join us as we unlock the secrets to lasting love, offer practical tools, and help ignite your passion for building a thriving partnership!



Our show isn't a collection of abstract theories and studies about 'how marriage should work'. It's rooted in our personal relationship struggles and the remarkable journey we undertook to rebuild our shattered marriage from the brink of divorce.

In fact, everything truly began when Melanie, during the darkest phase of our marriage in 2009, gave Seth a black eye. You can find the complete story HERE or listen to it in Season One, I Would Rather Be Divorced.

Sharing our firsthand experience along with the tools and resources we have created has transformed thousands of marriages. 

Power Couple Planner

The Power Couple Planner is a weekly planning system designed to help couples make the most of their marriage. With hundreds of Conversation Starters, guided weekly points of connection, Conflict resolution tools, Date Ideas, and more, this planner does it all! 
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Back to Basics Bootcamp

The Back to Basics Bootcamp is a
3-part video course with a companion workbook to help couples get to the bottom of their long-standing issues. We cover Family of Origin, Sex & Intimacy, Unspoken Expectations, the invisible Rulebook, and MORE!
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The 7 B's for getting ready!

Kids have a HUGE impact on the health and wellbeing of a marriage, so we developed a fast, fun, and easy to use printable pdf to help you get your kiddos ready for school in a flash! Print one for each kid and help yourself get the orderly and happy mornings you've dreamed of.
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Badass Husband Mastermind!

The Badass Husband Mastermind is a way to help dudes become better husbands, fathers, sons, and men. You don't have to white-knuckle it or struggle your way through hard times alone. Experience the power of being in a supportive, badass group of dudes who want to see you WIN! Learn more about BAHMM.